LGBTQ+ Intended Parents

LGBTQ+ Intended Parents

Become an LGBTQIA+ Parent

Our founder, a gay man with a dream of starting his own family, used his personal experiences to shape our mission. Over the years, we’ve supported countless gay, queer, and trans parents, leading to the creation of strategic programs and partnerships that address the unique environmental and cultural needs of the LGBTQIA+ community.

Having gone through the surrogacy journey twice with different agencies, Surrogacy4allNow truly exceeded our expectations. Their staff was attentive, responsive, and incredibly sincere. One of the standout features was their Fixed Cost Program, which simplified the process by allowing us to make a single financial transfer. This alone relieved a lot of stress and confusion. I highly recommend this agency to all LGBTQ folks!

Overview of Gay Surrogacy

Since 1995, Surrogacy4allNow has been dedicated to helping the LGBTQIA+ community achieve their dreams of parenthood. Founded by John Weltman, a lawyer and proud gay father of two sons born through surrogacy, our organization brings a wealth of experience to the complex journey of surrogacy.

How Surrogacy4allNow Can Help

Planning and coordination are crucial in a surrogacy journey, along with navigating legal contracts. At Surrogacy4allNow, we guide intended parents through every step, drawing on our expertise so you can focus on what matters most.

Why It Matters

Surrogacy offers LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples a unique path to having biological children. This process involves medical and legal expertise and requires strong emotional support every step of the way.

How Does It Work?

In IVF, embryos are created in a fertility clinic lab using the biological material from the gay intended parents and a donor. At the clinic, one or two embryos are implanted into a gestational carrier, who then carries the pregnancy to term. In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate has no genetic connection to the child or children she carries.

Trans Intended Parents

At Surrogacy4allNow, we are proud to support the transgender and non-binary communities. Our team includes lawyers who specialize in surrogacy law for the LGBTQIA+ community and are well-versed in the unique aspects of this journey for prospective parents. We recognize that while some trans and non-binary individuals may be biologically capable of having children, it might not always be the safest or most comfortable option. That’s why we’re here to offer our expertise and support, making surrogacy a viable path to parenthood.
 
We’re committed to ensuring you have a comfortable and safe environment throughout your surrogacy journey.
 
Have questions about parenthood as a trans individual? Fill out our parent form to connect with an experienced parent intake associate.
 

What to Look For in a Surrogacy Agency

Finding the right agency is a crucial first step in your surrogacy journey. Many intended parents value an agency that not only understands the surrogacy process but also has experience in supporting the LGBTQIA+ community.

Surrogacy4allNow empathizes with the fears shared by all our intended parents, especially the unique concerns and questions that arise during a surrogacy journey for LGBTQIA+ parents. Here are some common questions we often address as intended parents begin their exploration of surrogacy:

How will my children fare with two dads or two moms?

Will my children be missing out on something because the family dynamic is different?

How and when do I tell my children about their origin story?

How do you support the LGBTQIA+ community during the surrogacy?

It’s crucial to ask these questions upfront to find the agency that’s the best fit for you. Rest assured, the Surrogacy4allNow team has been supporting the LGBTQIA+ community for over 20 years. We can connect you with gay parents who’ve gone through surrogacy, allowing you to hear their personal stories whenever you’re ready.

Success Stories and Testimonials from Families

As a mother, I know the joy a child brings. When I decided to become a surrogate, Surrogacy4Allnow made my journey smooth and comfortable. They were always there to answer my questions and provide support. I felt respected and valued throughout the process. Knowing that I helped a wonderful couple become parents is a feeling I’ll cherish forever.

Jessica

“We always dreamed of having a family, but medical issues stood in our way. Surrogacy4Allnow was a ray of hope in our lives. They provided us with a wonderful surrogate who was compassionate and committed to helping us fulfill our dream. Their transparent, affordable pricing and personal guidance through every step made this journey so much easier than we had ever imagined. Now, we are parents to a beautiful baby boy. Thank you, Surrogacy4Allnow!”

Sarah and Mike

“As a single gay man, I was unsure about the path to fatherhood until I found Surrogacy4Allnow. They were incredibly supportive, explaining all the options and guiding me through the entire process. The team is knowledgeable, professional, and treated me like family. Today, I am the proud father of a beautiful girl. I can’t thank Surrogacy4Allnow enough for helping me bring them into the world.”

David

“We always knew we wanted children, and Surrogacy4Allnow helped us bring that dream to life. Their comprehensive screening process for surrogates gave us confidence and peace of mind. Now we have a beautiful daughter, and it would not have been possible without their unwavering support, transparent pricing, and guidance at every step. Surrogacy4Allnow, you are a blessing to us.”

Laura and Jennifer

“Living in China, we were unsure about surrogacy in the USA. However, Surrogacy4Allnow made it possible for us. Their international surrogacy options were exactly what we needed. The team was always there to support us, answer our questions, and guide us through the process. Today, we are back in Beijing with our healthy baby boy. Surrogacy4Allnow bridged the distance and made our dream of parenthood a reality.”

Li Hua and Zhang Wei

Surrogacy Requirements for LGBTQIA+ Parents

Intended parent requirements are established to ensure a successful journey for all parties involved. At Surrogacy4allNow, we guide and support you and your surrogate, prioritizing the well-being of your future baby.

We consider the following criteria when evaluating intended parents for our program and clinic partners:

Intended parents benefit greatly from a robust support system. Apart from your partner, if applicable, it’s crucial to have friends, family, and community members who are aware of your journey and actively support you.

Parents must adhere to agency guidelines, which encompass meeting age requirements and demonstrating openness to establishing a relationship with their surrogate.

If you have any questions about specific requirements, we invite you to complete our parent form so you can connect directly with one of our Parent Intake Associates.

 

Finding an Egg Donor

If you’re considering an egg donor for your surrogacy journey, Surrogacy4allNow is here to assist you every step of the way.

We recommend beginning your search with Everie Egg Donation Program, our trusted partner. Everie offers the most comprehensive selection of fresh and frozen egg donors. They specialize in facilitating thoughtful matches, whether you prefer disclosed (known) donations or mutual matching between parents and donors. Explore their extensive database to learn about their programs.

If you choose an egg donor through Everie and have selected Surrogacy4allNow as your surrogacy agency, our coordination team will provide unwavering support throughout both your egg donation and surrogacy experiences. We offer cost-effective programs that integrate surrogacy and egg donation services with Everie.

LGBTQIA + Surrogacy Laws

While surrogacy processes for both heterosexual and same-sex intended parents share similarities, there are key distinctions to consider. It’s crucial to be well-informed about your parental rights and the specific surrogacy laws that apply in your state or country, as well as where your chosen surrogate resides.

At Surrogacy4allNow, we’re dedicated to supporting you throughout your surrogacy journey with the guidance of our skilled legal team. Our lawyers are not only experienced professionals in surrogacy law but also deeply passionate about assisting LGBTQIA+ couples and individuals in building their families.

Common Legal Procedures for Gay Parenting

When you’re ready to secure your parental rights, you’ll need the expertise of a lawyer well-versed in surrogacy and Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART). At Surrogacy4allNow, our dedicated legal team possesses the necessary experience to assist LGBTQIA+ intended parents every step of the way.

Begin with an initial consultation where we discuss your medical history, family-building goals, and preferences for a surrogate. Our experienced team will guide you through the process, answer your questions, and help you understand what to expect. This meeting includes a review of your fertility history, an overview of the surrogacy process, and a discussion of any concerns or specific needs you may have.
A court proceeding that establishes parental rights prior to the birth of the child. PBOs are only available in certain states. In other states, it may be possible to obtain a post-birth order.
Allows a birth mother to designate a father, sometimes without the need for a court proceeding.
Grants custody of a child to the intended parent(s).
Permanently establishes the non-biological parent’s rights to the child. It’s advisable to obtain a second-parent adoption. Even when it is possible to obtain a pre-birth order or a post-birth order, parents should know that not all states recognize parentage conferred in this way. By contrast, adoptions are recognized nationwide.
Ensures that guardianship of the child is provided for in the event of the death of one or both parents. When a gay couple lives in a state or country where same-sex marriage isn’t legal, it becomes even more important to establish these documents.

1. Payment by Intended Parents: $35,000 to $55,000

2. 15 weeks of maternity benefits : $10,000 (By Canadian Govt)

3. Total Potential Payments: $45,000 to $65,000 (CAD)

Legally Match With a Surrogate Who's Right for You

Our Matching Specialists have helped hundreds of intended parents and surrogates connect meaningfully. We believe in nurturing the relationship between surrogates and intended parents throughout their journey together. At Surrogacy4allNow, we match parents and surrogates based on three key criteria, starting with legal compatibility. It’s essential that your surrogate resides in a state where you can confidently establish your parental rights, ensuring a smooth and secure journey.

Financial Assistance for Surrogacy

Surrogacy4allNow is dedicated to supporting intended parents on their surrogacy journey. We strive to make surrogacy more accessible by offering exclusive financial assistance opportunities specifically tailored for LGBTQIA+ intended parents, helping them manage the costs involved.

Through a long-standing partnership with Men Having Babies, Surrogacy4allNow offers the following discounts for parents:

GPAP Stage II – 1 pro bono Agency Service(s) per year
GPAP Stage I – 30%. Annual quota: 4 cases per year

You can learn more about these financial aids and additional financing options, by filling out a form and connecting with a Parent Intake Associate.

Community Support for LGBTQIA+ Parents

Surrogacy4allNow is committed to providing best-in-class support and understanding of the cultural and environmental needs of our LGBTQIA+ community.
 

Since 1995, we’ve been partnering with various LGBTQ+ organizations, including:

  • GWK Academy (Gays with Kids)
  • Men Having Babies
  • the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center
  • Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders (GLAD)
  • Family Equality Council
  • The Association des Families Homoparentales.
 

Start the Process

Ready to take the next step in your journey to parenthood? Start the process today by scheduling a consultation with our team. We’re here to guide you every step of the way and help you find the perfect surrogate to make your dreams come true.